Superdad.com.au is all about the joys, challenges and lessons of being a bloke in the role of primary caregiver.

From January to December 2009 I had the pleasure of being at home with my eldest son, Austin, for months nine to 19 of his young life. It was a blast, but it wasn't all easy.

This site captures it all. From self-feeding to potting training; the politics of playgroup and the suspicious looks from all those mums on the high street. There's recipes, activities and road trips. There's SAHD news from around the world. There's things not to do on online auctions - no matter how long your child's afternoon sleep.

It may inform, inspire or amuse. Heck, it might just do all three.

Wednesday, February 4

First Steps

Don’t be misled by the headline. The boy only hit the ten-month mark today, although he did celebrate by crawling – and having his first dump in the toilet. There was a strong (read loud) warning, and he was held, but, still, credit where credit’s due.

The steps the headline refers to are my first three days as a stay-at-home dad. So far, so good. Austin is happy. Mum is happy. Come 6pm Dad was not holding a gin and tonic. These are all good signs.

The secret, I gladly admit, is Kate’s previous and considerable hard work. Austin wakes at 6.30am, sleeps from 8.30am to 10.30am and then from 1.00pm to 3.00pm. Even if he wakes during these times, our little champ will lie in his cot and talk to himself. These windows are very important. They allow for household chores . They also allow for self-indulgence. Today it was a DVD. The day before Stick Cricket.

The important bit, I know, is to master the waking hours – the right activities, new sights and sounds, and developing his feeding and moving capabilities. Surely a guy can handle this stuff…and without reading a book? Stay tuned - we're about to find out.

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